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  • Block. If it was a close friend I might give different advice, but this is a stranger on the internet being annoying (or worse). Responding to him will only make it worse. Block and move on. Note: you (both) might still think about it later and you might feel a pang of guilt, or shame, or worry, or whatever. You shouldn’t, because you’re doing nothing wrong, but that’s fine if you do. It happens to everyone. You’ll think about it less and less over time.

    Also, I would give the same advice to someone who isn’t a minor, and you’re right to question his actions. He shouldn’t be asking/nagging for free work. No means no and is absolutely the right answer.

    If he knows your girlfriend is a minor, that just moves this to another level and she shouldn’t even hesitate to block him. If he gets around the block report him right away.


















  • I’m so frustrated that this article, and many other sources - including news programs, are not talking about the lack of alarms in the buildings. I agree that the materials and density were terrible and created a catastrophic situation for the structures, but the lack of alarms to alert residents is absolutely ridiculous and is what made this such a huge tragedy for the people who died.

    If the buildings’ alarms aren’t working, then they should be on “fire watch” with 24/7 personnel ready to alert people on every floor where the alarm isn’t working. Does that cost too much? Then fix the fucking alarms as a top priority. This is especially true when there are no automatic sprinklers, which sounds like is often the case in Hong Kong.

    There are reports that people were getting calls from their friends and relatives and that’s how they learned about the fire. People were waking up to the smell of smoke without an alarm going off. WTF. That’s so far beyond acceptable, I don’t know what else to say.

    I travel a lot and I always bring my own smoke and CO detector with me. This is an example of why.