I haven’t checked Lemmy for a long time but I wanna get off Reddit again, yet I still need to know how many users are on here. Which lemmy instances are suitable to me, the most popular, and which ones to avoid? For context, im queer, anarchist with DemSoc leaning, and environmentalist. Is there a comprehensive list of all the instances and their main functions? Is the instance I’m on still workable? Any feedback would help, thx. <3

  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    5
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    19 hours ago

    I’m on my phone and watching something simmer it’s really not hard to reply to assholes online at the same time

    death to america btw

    • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      3
      ·
      19 hours ago

      Right, we’ve established you’re a liar — there’s no need to defend yourself anymore.

      • FridaySteve@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        18 hours ago

        You came here to be enraged and express your rage. What’s the point of telling other people not to respond to you? This is how you’re choosing to spend your time, responding to people who enrage you. If you don’t want to hear from people, put your phone down and go do something else.

        • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          arrow-down
          4
          ·
          18 hours ago

          No, actually, I hopped into this thread and witnessed .ml trogs spouting bullshit. This is something I frequently see on this platform.

          You are either an alt account or you’ve got some kind of prior interaction with the .mlers on this post.

          I’m going to block you now, good luck defending nazis.

          • FridaySteve@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            5
            ·
            18 hours ago

            Wow, that offended you so much that I’m on your blocklist? You’re so deep in at this point that you’d rather engage with literal Nazis than someone who is just suggesting that you check your behavior?

      • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        18 hours ago

        keep calling me fake trans, also make sure to let all your trans friends know that your support is conditional on their behavior.

        death to america btw

        • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          edit-2
          18 hours ago

          No no, see I’m willing to listen to them and change my mind — because they don’t defend nazis, authoritarians, and deny genocide.

          It’s very different. I’m not surprised that you struggle to understand, you don’t seem very good at context.

          • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            9
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            edit-2
            18 hours ago

            you’re a transphobe who’s been dehumanizing me all thread, on an instance run by a transphobe, fuck off already.

            death to america btw

            • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              6
              ·
              edit-2
              18 hours ago

              Ah, right — more of the bullshit.

              Yes yes, I must be a transphobe because I called you mean names like clanker, liar or troglodyte.

              Incredible, you make such a good name for trans people. At this rate, I’m going to block you simply because I don’t want there to be even more messages from a ‘trans’ person saying death to America being publically visible.

              You’re welcome, by the way — I’m doing you and every trans person on this platform a favor. No, I don’t accept the bottle of estrogen and sticky note your friend sent you — I’m just tired of exercising Brandolini’s Law.

              • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                9
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                edit-2
                18 hours ago

                it’s cause you said I wasn’t really trans until I showed you literal proof; and still you call me ‘trans’ in scare quotes. People can still be trans without being on meds, I know more than enough homeless or tenuously housed trans girls who struggle to keep their prescriptions filled regularly- or at all. Guess what, plenty of them wouldn’t agree with your politics either. Doesn’t make them no longer trans.

                Deciding that you’re the cis arbiter of who’s trans and who isn’t does make you a transphobe though.

                No, I don’t accept the bottle of estrogen and sticky note your friend sent you

                I could fucking fully dox myself and transphobes like you would still make up some bullshit to not believe me

                death to america

                • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  arrow-down
                  5
                  ·
                  edit-2
                  18 hours ago

                  Yes, yes, spout off as if you’re on stage — your virtue means you’re very believable.

                  When did I decide I’m the arbiter of who is and isn’t trans? I’m accusing you of lying, dipshit, I didn’t make you a paragon of your people*.

                  Meanwhile, we have an entire thread of you continually admitting you’re trans and saying death to America. I wonder whose rhetoric harms trans people more?

                  Of course that’s rhetorical, you think you speak for every trans person in existence! Simple because you’re trans. Odd how that looks, isn’t it?

                  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
                    link
                    fedilink
                    English
                    arrow-up
                    9
                    arrow-down
                    1
                    ·
                    edit-2
                    18 hours ago

                    I don’t speak for every trans person, however you deciding that i’m not ‘really’ trans because you don’t like my opinions does make you a transphobe.

                    idk why I give fash like you the time of day

                    death to america btw