My dad has recently been caught having an affair with his young personal assistant. Huge scandal; mom was very angry. Now they’re in the middle of divorce proceedings. Mom moved out, the other woman moved in and I chose to stay with him because we’re super close; he’s like my best friend. Now mom’s telling me to go and live with her and go no contact with him cause he’s a bad person and by continuing having a relationship with him I’m condoning his actions and “ignoring her suffering”. My relationship with my dad hasn’t changed, I don’t see why I should end it.

    • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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      4 days ago

      Not from Kansas. Well traveled and have seen a bunch of relationships. I’ve seen people get divorced and I’ve seen infidelity.

      I have immeasurably more respect for those that get divorced no matter how hard it is. Breaking the vow through being a cheater is about as low as you can go.

      Sorry you don’t hold marriage to sanctity it should be

        • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          26·
          4 days ago

          Says the man posting from lemmynsfw. Things in your second marriage must be going super well

          If you held marriage to any standard, a man breaking his vows to sleep WITH HIS ASSISTANT should be pretty deplorable. And recommended an atleast young adult to just brush past that like it’s just another mistake is insane.

          Yeah, just look the other way that he figuratively slapped your mom across the face. Atleast he’s cool though