Basically when I’m relaxed I act submissively but only when I’m on the alert I am assertive. It’s like when someone asks you a math question out of the blue versus when you know you have to be ready for one.
Is this normal? Or should I try being more passively assertive?


I have honestly know idea what c/NoStupidQuestions even stands for anymore…
Perhaps the name is meant to be taken as imperative. No stupid questions!!!
Anyway, y’all can suck it.