I would be a cook. I love food.

the first step to help with a disorder is to stop demonisation.

stop calling every dislikeable person a narcissist. you don’t need to be a narcissist to be an asshole.

people who are victims of abuse, done by people with cluster B disorders or not, often develop these disorders. they don’t seek help for it or admit it tho, because is it seen as “the abuser” disorder.

finally, people can have cluster B traits without being cluster B themselves. same with every other personality disorder. we need to stop armchair diagnosing people, especially on the internet.

there’s a difference between not being perfect and supporting outing trans children.

If you mean the ability to post at both at the same time, on the same site, there’s mbin.

waow

sorry, some of the redditors still kept their attitude while going to lemmy

I’m only alive because of my friend. She means everything to me and is the only one that fully believes me.

edit: forgot to mention, but yeah, she would be devastated if I killed myself, which is why I don’t.

scrolled past and saw one for almost every subthread.

Post about western achievements are often taken as granted (except maybe curing cancer), while eastern ones are scrutinised to the smallest of details.

bomb!

I was thinking of making one, but I’m not a woman, so I’ll think of something else

there’s also plume: https://joinplu.me/

I’m not sure if I’ve properly explored the idea, but a specific “digital culture” would help a lot. Inside jokes, ways of speaking, emojis, memes, etc. really help an instance to distinguish itself from others.

The best example is Hexbear (ik but just hear me out for a second). Their culture is borrowed from the edgier side of the leftist internet, but they still have a style of their own. They were so recogniseable even, that a user claimed to be scared of seeing pronouns next to someone’s username because they knew it would be a comment from Hexbear (they used to be the only instance with such features, before others followed suit).

I have a hypothesis that a good amount of issolation, or at least encouraging users to only post on communities on your instance, would be good for developping some kind of culture, maybe even kinship between them.

yes!

SRB2 !

^

the point is that it doesn’t matter, since most people are on lemmy.world anyways

Today. I exercised

That’s because you are not America. When they talk about making America better, they’re not talking about you. Never did

Edit: I want to make it clear that what I mean is that they don’t care about the people, not that they shouldn’t

The new FE is going to be in rust though

Fun fact! Lemmy is made in Rust!