

I went the /e/os way and quickly turned back. Not to dismiss the effort of the maintainers, but it really felt like a frontend on lineage os meant to sell alternative cloud services. I did not find convincing arguments over a bare lineage os and the pretty much forced /e/ cloud was a total turn off.
I went the “real” security / privacy way and switched to grapheneos. Very happy overall, already went thought with 2 major os updates, no issues whatsoever. Only issue would be if you want Google pay (won’t work on graphene). You’d need a pixel phone if that’s in your budget. The pixel phones are great at photos, but pretty “meh” otherwise

Didn’t read this particular article, but using a pi as a router works rather well. I’ve been using one as my main router for years now, with openwrt. You get a CPU fast enough to handle QoS without issues, more than enough power to run a few additional things if you want to (wireguard, AdBlock, …). Only thing is : the wifi is trash. Doesn’t matter for me (I just use the integrated wifi for a guest network, main network have dedicated APs)