He is getting married in a foreign country soon
Where is he getting married? Plan a nice holiday in this country and take half a day to attend the wedding just for showing your face. Stand at the back of the room, make sure enough people see you to say you were there, then slowly back away and continue with your nice holiday of the country.
Or save your money and get absolutely loaded on blackjack and hookers back home.
Your options are:
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