I’m a lazy fuck. That’s why I use openSUSE Tumbleweed myself that has snapper preconfigured. I roll updates once I have time/will, sometimes twice a week, sometimes multiple months between. It’s fucking solid! And even if it breaks, it’s couple minutes to get it back to working condition and then I wait a week and next update is fine. This is the best!
Not stupid, she’s definitely not stupid. It’s that everyone has their own quirks maybe? And different expectations.