Ukraine is not attacking civilian infrastructure, what you’re describing are war crimes. This is not what the debate over long range missiles is about.
Here is a recent video from William Spaniel about the debate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tM0ZTEz7Bzc
Förskola/daycare before 6 is not compulsory
https://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Förskoleklass