While you’re playing with Google, maybe look up the definition of a double standard. Then maybe search for the statistics on domestic violence. I’ll give you one for free:

“72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner; 94% of the victims of these murder suicides are female.“

Should there be a hotline for both cases? Yes. But your approach is obnoxious when women are more likely to be victims of domestic violence.

You might not “care for the crumbs,” but with your attitude, that’s all you’re destined to get.