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Cake day: March 10th, 2024

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  • Hard dislike, if you aren’t in company of actual queer folks (or do outnumber them massively).

    I get that especially straight women see it as a safe place (and I wish there were more of those) - but where there are straight women straight men usually follow - and at some point they outnumber “us”. And now I do not feel welcome at the only gay bar in town - it is most of the time essentially a bar with some queer decoration.

    Some gay bars in the next bigger city do not allow women for this exact reason. Others enforce it via kinky attire dress code (e.g. leather, rubber, lycra, puppys, etc.) - but that can be annoying when you don’t have a specific kink for that dress code and this may not have the required outfit.



  • Xiaomis hardware is pretty good. I especially like that IR blasters are still a thing. The software however is atrocious and gets worse over time.

    Buying an Xiaomi phone you will have to comb through a couple hundred menus to deactivate ads and other privacy issues. Some of them will automatically turn back on on update.

    You will also fight the extremely aggressive battery saving options at some point.

    Alternate launchers are not really supported and break app switching sometimes.

    And security updates are slow, up to multiple months between them. (But that is sadly not unique to Xiaomi)
















  • Thank your for your insight💕

    More damatic emotions get noticed more. But art can capture subtler experiences too.

    Of course, ‘everyone can be artist’. But wouldn’t the lack of the dramatic lead to a lesser chance of ‘making it big’?

    (Not that I have the desire or the skills to do that - I mean if I could spontaneously choose a super skill it would probably painting - just to probably mostly draw furry porn /jk unless)

    Pay attention to all the qualities of your experience and you’ll notice it’s not just the intense ones that have vibrancy.

    I will, once I get my brain in order. I am having a hard time recalling positive experiences right now, especially ones that are “vibrant” in any way. But I think that is the depression.

    (In my opinion everyone should try their hand at a creative hobby, no matter if classic or unconventional, and I am trying to find smething that ‘sparks joy’ but its hard right now.)