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  • Jarix@lemmy.worldtoTechnology@lemmy.world•The Men Who Spend Hours Talking to Porn Bots— “It’s just nice to feel heard.”English
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    9 days ago

    It’s probably more directly related to the system of getting the help you need with having to sacrifice a significant portion of the money you make that needs to go elsewhere.

    And it’s a history of it from one generation to the next so there’s not good male role models in most people’s lives for mental health.

    It’s not like it’s some magic thing to go see a therapist and all your problems will be fixed. It can take a long time and a lot of trial and error to find someone you feel comfortable speaking to

    Yes toxic masculinity is a problem, but your comment doesnt really acknowledge the difficulty of breaking that cycle. Not a very helpful and kind of alienating to anyone who needs help and isn’t from a background that creates good outcomes.

  • Jarix@lemmy.worldtoMildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Stand somewhere elseEnglish
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    13 days ago

    You have no idea if they have a reason or not. Perhaps that’s their regular spot. Perhaps the wifi or data signal is only good in that area, maybe they are just asshole. But you assume a lot and are just jumping to conclusions. Behaviours that lead to worse results.

    There’s always more to the story than you can tell.

  • Jarix@lemmy.worldtoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•why does almost nobody live here?
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    26 days ago

    If you do a quick look at the terrain option on Google maps. I think it’s very obvious that there were advantages places for larger populations to settle around. That particular section of the west coast is fairly inhospitable. Look at the coastal sea floor as well. It paints a fairly clear picture on its own, especially when comparing it to the east coast. Secondly find a timelapse of the how north American was settled as colonies. Stuff mostly came from the east and eventually made it’s way to the west. Railroads are big big part of how the west was colonized and there wasn’t much use for north south railways as things progressed as there was to get things to and from the east.

    That locks in or at least reinforces the locations of where major populations can establish themselves.

    It’s only been about 135 years since trans Pacific trade started(quick google info please be kind if that’s wrong) in the year 2000 it was still inside the lifespan of a single living human that international trade across the Pacific was really anything at all

    And it was with people’s that had absolutely no relation with the European colonists. And they were also very xenophobic culturally and didn’t develop very advanced in deep ocean sailing due to lack of interest.

    The old world was east of the Americas, mystery and the unknown was the Pacific. There be monsters there!

    So all in all it seem to make a lot of sense that there wasnt much economic pressures requiring big coastal economies until well after established communities and regions developed.

    I think Astoria is one of the older major coastal trade cities, but it faltered as Seattle and Portland developed.

    And to your point about being inland a ways, they are in much most hospitable regions for farming and agriculture to support a large population

  • Jarix@lemmy.worldtoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•why does almost nobody live here?
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    26 days ago

    Why do you think almost no one lives there just because you don’t know of a major city in the area?

    It’s simple logistics, there’s no reason for a major city to be there.

    You have Seattle, Vancouver, Victoria in the same region. And if anything is coming to the area it’s going to that region already, and if it’s going farther south you have better ports in Oregon.

    Genuinely curious what made you interested in this idea or where it came from