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Can you?

I’m saying exactly what I said, he sucked in therapy because of his inability to acknowledge his shitty attitude and instead he’s blaming that on women.

Where in there did I said because he’s a man? He’s struggling with classic men issues as listed above, that’s not blaming him for being a man learn to read.

Untrue completely. Go to your local Costco, BJs, Walmart, Best Buy and tell me what the managers look like, some will be women sure but most especially the GMs will be men.

You just blamed all his so-called issues on him being a man.

Ok

You’re pissy, jaded and uncomfortable with the concept of being wrong. Classic men shit.

Not blaming him for being a man dunno how you read that, you’re backwards as hell.

He’s being angry at women, classic men shit. Which is why he isn’t feeling better. How did you think that’s blaming him for being a man, cause I said classic men shit? Learn to read buddy

You’re being a bozo. I’m arguing to be empathetic to women, you’re calling that unempathetic. You don’t deserve a serious reply so you didn’t get one.

Imagine arguing being a nicer person is a bad thing?

Sure buddy keep hating women or whatever the point of your comment was.

Please quote me. I said he’s being sexist which he is.

Yes that is ridiculous because the intent is to lay responsibility at women’s feet, again. Like always.

This stuff about how women see men or whatever weird breeding shit you’re rambling about is irrelevant you’re just trying to argue women have a choice in some weird way to make the men they want and “choose” not to. That’s so silly.

The simple fact is men are allowed to not take part in their kid’s lives and having one parent do the job isn’t gonna work regardless if they are male or female. As you suggested that is a comment on our social structure which i agree with but again, not what is being said in this thread it’s very clear they are blaming women directly and entirely.

Now again there’s dozens of factors at play here but the bottom line is men are responsible. They hold power in society, they are allowed to disregard children and they are the ones bullying boys into being the way they are. Do women have a role in that? Sure. Is it their responsibility or fault? No that’s silly as fuck especially cause most couldn’t have jobs, couldn’t vote and still can’t do either across the globe.

Bottom line is men are failing men and the first step to a solution is empathy especially towards women which this thread lacks hard. Women are literally the ones leading the charge in reinforcing openness and education, don’t believe me? go to your local elementary school and check out how the teachers speak to kids. Some will be men most will be women and they’re impressively kind and open and teaching a variety of skills to help kids be better people. Men as a whole are not doing that, in fact most men in power are actively trying not to let that happen. They call it sissyfication.

Everyone else is blaming women for how men act. You disagree?

One guy said women raise boys, so it’s their fault.

Another said therapy only works for women and suggested women aren’t under any social pressure.

You think those are intelligent, well thought arguments? Because they’re stupid.

But that’s not what we’re talking about

Men statically run the most businesses, hold the management positions and other seats of authority so they’re the ones dictating and deciding things in the world. That’s the disparity, not wealth

No that’s ridiculous and hilarious to say. I’d agree there is enough to blame everyone but you’re not, you’re blaming women.

I’ve never been told to man up by a woman, only men. Ridiculous to say that.

That’s so funny you say that because literally not what I’m saying, genuinely what I’m arguing about. Nice reading comprehension bozo.

Go on scroll up, find the first comment that talks about therapy NOT working for men.

Ironic gonna criticize Lemmy yet be stupid yourself. You tried kid.

Who is “they” because the “they” is other men.

So why are we like mad at women in the comments it’s nonsense. Why disparage healthcare and therapy it’s nonsense.

The issue at hand is one demographic struggles to extend empathy and therefore doesn’t get it in return. Make the first step, be empathetic in your life and I swear if you respond saying you are I’m gonna laugh because no, reading your responses you’re not, you’re very “you” focused.

There’s no power struggle, and any you sense is disenfranchised groups trying to get power back from, guess who?

What the fuck? Can you read?

Coping Skills are not gender specific. What a dope.

good thing you’re an authority on nothing then

Dude is nongendered everyone is a dude, nice try tho trying to pull this though

This is why you sucked in therapy and found it unhelpful. You’re pissy, jaded and uncomfortable with the concept of being wrong. Classic men shit.

Empathy would fix that, show that you don’t have to be so insecure because nobody else is that secure.

Literally in therapy but okay. Continue to reject my perspective and unsupport a fellow dude. Hypocrites.

Again. Coping skills are not gender specific they’re individual specific.

Nobody is screaming. And yes women are victims of men, have you spoken to any of them about it? Because it’s rather helpful to have those conversations.

Your comment is just very one sided and that’s the side that has the most power on the planet and as a member of that side I have just as much perspective of you and I’m here to say – nah to most of what you said.

Men’s #1 issue is lack of empathy towards women, they isolate half the planet from supporting them. There’s your solution.

I disagree. I had depression pretty bad, I didn’t leave my house for two years.

Empathy is definitely what made me feel different, not 100% better but different and different is the first step out of depression I think.