What is it about the text messages and emails sent by older people that make me feel like I’m having a stroke?

Maybe they’re used to various shortcuts in their writing that they picked up before autocorrect became common, but these habits are too idiosyncratic for autocorrect to handle properly. However, that doesn’t explain the emails I’ve had to decipher that were typed on desktop keyboards. Has anyone else younger than 45 or so felt similarly frustrated with geriatrics’ messages?

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    5 months ago

    In my experience, younger people who grew up with the internet write their texts and emails as if they are instant messaging, because they grew up with AOL and MSN messenger etc when it comes to text based communication.

    Older people who communicated over text before the internet only did this in one way - writing letters.

    As a result their style of texting or emailing is often very long form in comparison.

    When writing letters you are limited by how much room there is on a piece of paper.

    This leads to using some shorthand which used to be fairly common, but has fallen out of public knowledge for younger people.

    You could argue that some of the stuff that younger people email or text informally can be just as cryptic because there is entirely different shorthand that millenials and generations Y and Z use.

    If you closely examine how you casually communicate with your peers of a similar age, you will notice it can be just as odd as what you experience from communicating with generations on either side of you.

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        5 months ago

        I’m over a decade away from 40 and I grew up with it.

        Furthermore the context of the use of younger is in:

        “In my experience, younger people who grew up with the internet write their texts and emails as if they are instant messaging, because they grew up with AOL and MSN messenger etc when it comes to text based communication.”

        Which is replying to a post titled:

        “What is it about the text messages and emails sent by older people that make me feel like I’m having a stroke?”

        The use of “Younger” here is not an absolute term, it is a relative term, meaning it refers to people younger than the older people the original poster is referring to, who are in my estimation likely to be anyone under the age of 60 based on what OP describes and my informed experiences having worked in the IT industry supporting users of all ages.